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Giving That Feels Good
June 4, 2006
Pastor Toby DePew

A. Today we are going to discover what God’s Word has to say about giving.

-  Now, it’s very easy to be somewhat cynical or even skeptical these days when someone associated with the church begins to talk about giving.

- With the scandals that have rocked the religious world in the last couple decades, many have become sensitive to the fact that there are some people in the world claiming to be doing the work of Christ, that are actually extremely successful scam artists.

- Understanding the sensitivity to the subject of money in the church, many preachers and churches have become silent on the issue.

- But the problem of that is, God is not silent on this issue at all.

- In fact, one of the main themes of both the Old and New Testaments is the subject of giving back to God out of what He has given to us.

B. Our main objective in this series is simply to worship God in a way that brings Him honor and glory and allows us to draw closer to Him.

- Let me just put some of you at ease as we begin and let you know that our objective is simply to be faithful to God.

- That’s what we’re here for and that’s what this series is all about.

- We are not going to apologize for what God has to say about giving.

- Nor are we going to shy away from it in any way, shape, or form.

- Because the bottom line is, giving to God is what must take place in your life and in mine if we are going to live to our full potential as Christians.

- We can talk about prayer, bible study, fellowship, and other spiritual habits, but none of them are more important than obtaining the habit of giving to God.

C. Now we don’t always look forward to lessons on giving.

- And I’m convinced that if you are not looking forward to this sermon on giving, it’s because you don’t enjoy giving.

- The reason many people don’t enjoy giving, or hearing about it, is because they give to God at some level, but they do it for the wrong reason.

- In other words, they have the wrong motivation behind it.

- I want to give you five motivations for giving this morning, with the lowest motivation first, and we’ll work our way through to the best motivation – all from 2 Corinthians chapters 8 and 9.

- Before we get going, let me remind you of something you probably already know – Giving is essential in the life of a Christian.

- It’s essential for three reasons:

1) Because it pleases God;

2) As we give we are able to accomplish a tremendous about of good for God;

3) If you develop the habit of giving to God it will help you escape the grasp of materialism.

So here is the first motivation for giving

MOTIVATION #1: GUILT – “I Have To Give”

- (2 Cor. 9:7) Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.

- Did you notice that last phrase? “God loves a cheerful giver.”

- Our heart’s response when giving should be one of cheerfulness.

- The word translated cheerful here, is where we get our English word hilarious.

- Now when’s the last time that we passed the offering plate you heard someone just start to giggle as they dropped their check into the plate?

- God is saying that this is something that ought to make us really happy.

- And He doesn’t just stop with that phrase cheerful here – if we back up a little we see that God makes it very clear we are not to give reluctantly and we are not to give under compulsion.

- Now here’s my point – this first motive of guilt is not a biblical motive.

- And anybody that would teach you in such a way that you have to give is abusing Scripture.

- There is strength to motivate by guilt

            _ STRENGTH: Brings In Money

- People will give if they think they have to give.

- The problem is, you begin to view giving to God’s work in the same way you view paying your taxes – you don’t enjoy doing it, but you are forced into it.

- There is a weakness to motivate by guilt

            _ WEAKNESS: It’s Unbiblical!

- This is a motive that is often used, but it is a motive that is used in direct contradiction to what the Bible teaches.

- It brings no joy to anyone, and it doesn’t help us to outgrow materialism.

- So let’s just cross this one off from the very start – this motive has absolutely no redeeming value whatsoever – let’s just put a big X across Motivation #1.

So here is the second motivation for giving

MOTIVATION #2: RESPONSIBILITY“I Ought To Giving”

- Now this is a higher motivation than guilt.

- (2 Cor. 8:7) But just as you excel in everything--in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in your love for us --see that you also excel in this grace of giving.

- This little word excel should say a lot to us – it means that we should really become good at doing this – we should become excellent in our giving.

- And it’s really interesting the way it plays out in this verse, because he says we should excel “just as” we do in these other areas of the Christian life.

- In Faith, speech, knowledge, earnestness, and love.

- Now these first four areas where we are called to excel, we would all say “yea, I really need to be good at those things – those are areas that I need to grow”.

- But just as importantly as those areas, we find that God wants us to grow in this grace of giving – this is not at the bottom of the list, it is the whole point of this passage – just as these things are important, learning to excel in giving is equally important.

- The better we understand this, the more able we are to break free from some bad attitudes we might have about giving.

- When we begin to understand this we realize that we are responsible to give, not out of guilt, but because God has set this standard of excellence for us.

- I have no doubt that most money is given because people feel this sense of responsibility to finance the work God has called us to do -- and that’s a good thing.

_ The STRENGTH is : It Builds Accountability

[I’m sure many of you have heard of the “80-20 rule”. 

- The “80-20 rule” refers to studies on congregational giving which indicate that 20% of church members give 80% of the funds, 30% give 20% of the funds, and approximately 50% give nothing at all. 

- For those 50% that are giving at some level, it is usually because they feel some level of responsibility to excel in this grace of giving.]

- We feel a sense of accountability to God in this matter and that is a positive.

            _ WEAKNESS: Limits Joy and Amount Given

- The motive of responsibility, at its core, has a tendency to lean toward legalism.

- If your primary motive for giving is responsibility, you will reach a point where you say, “I have done my part and I’m not doing any more” -- and that’s a legalistic attitude.

- What happens is, you find the amount you feel God requires of you, and you give that amount because you feel accountable to God for it, but it is not given with joy, and generally is not given for the purpose of sharing in the ministry.

So here is the Third motivation for giving

MOTIVATION #3: NEEDS –  “I Want To Give”

- When we see the need, we are motivated to give.

- You see the need we have at this church – we have a need to meet our budget; we have a need to supply our ministries that will help us reach more people for Christ.

- (2 Cor. 8:13-15) Our desire is not that others might be relieved while you are hard pressed, but that there might be equality. At the present time your plenty will supply what they need, so that in turn their plenty will supply what you need. Then there will be equality, as it is written: "He who gathered much did not have too much, and he who gathered little did not have too little."

- The quote at the end of this verse is from the OT – Ex. 16:18.

- If you go back and read the story behind this quote you’ll find that it is the account of the gathering of the manna when the children of Israel were wandering through the wilderness and God was supplying their needs.

- God was taking care of them, and He told them that everyone needed to gather as much of the manna as they needed.

- After they gathered what they needed they would go back and share it with one another.

- But some of them didn’t share and they hoarded their manna for themselves – but those who were selfish and kept it for themselves until the next day got a surprise.

- They found that the manna they had kept for themselves was filled with maggots.

- The lesson of course, was that they were supposed to be looking out for the needs of others and meeting those needs with what God provided.

- Now Paul takes that analogy and applies it in the NT for recognizing the needs that our present, and meeting those needs by giving financially.

_ STRENGTH: Feels Good

- We’re not giving because we feel guilty, and not just because we feel responsible – we’re giving because we know that there is a need and we want to meet it.

- It is this motivation for giving that encourages us to understand what it means to give sacrificially, above and beyond what we feel is required of us.

- This motivation also has the potential to raise large sums of money because some people are only motivated to give when they see a specific need.

            _ WEAKNESS: Some Don’t See the Need

- If this is your only motivation for giving, you will tend to give only when you approve of a particular project and you lose the whole idea of living in community as the people of God.

- In addition, this motive is very much emotion-based.

- Most of us aren’t going to be very moved by the electric bill, or trash pick-up, or office expenses – although these are very real and significant needs to do ministry.

So here is the fourth motivation for giving

MOTIVATION #4: THANKSGIVING –  “I Can’t Help It But Giving”

- When you are living your life in gratitude for God you will give out of that gratitude, rather than out of guilt, responsibility, or need.

- (2 Cor. 9:12-13) This service that you perform is not only supplying the needs of God's people but is also overflowing in many expressions of thanks to God. Because of the service by which you have proved yourselves, men will praise God for the obedience that accompanies your confession of the gospel of Christ, and for your generosity in sharing with them and with everyone else.

- I don’t know if you’ve ever thought about it like this, but when you drop your money in the plate each Sunday you are confessing your gratitude

- We need to learn that God equates giving with gratitude.

- It is expressing to God that we are thankful for what He has done in our lives.

_ STRENGTH: Feels Very Good

- When we consider all that God has done for us and for our church, it is great to know that we have a tangible way of expressing our thanks back to Him.

- When I see the kids of this church singing, or learning in class, or I see our Youth Group learning about living pure lives for God, when I see how God has blessed us in allowing us to support different mission’s ministries, I want to thank Him.

- I do that by giving to His cause and offering to do even more so that more ministry can be accomplished -- and when more ministry is accomplished I have even more reason to be grateful.

- It is a cycle of thanksgiving that continues to manufacture godly benefits.

            _ WEAKNESS: Limited by our Perception

- In particular, our perception of thankfulness.

- Let me explain: I don’t know what you’re going through right now – I don’t know where you are emotionally, spiritually, or physically.

- If you are not up to par in any of these areas you might not be feeling all that thankful right now.

- And if my main motivation is thanksgiving, which in general is a great thing, if for some reason I’m not feeling thankful at the moment I will tend to withhold from God what is rightfully His.

So here is the final motivation for giving

MOTIVATION #5: WORSHIP – “It’s My Nature Giving”

- This is the top motivation for giving.

- (2 Cor. 8:5) And they did not do as we expected, but they gave themselves first to the Lord and then to us in keeping with God's will.

- Worship is giving yourself to God – which means that giving is worship!

- These Macedonian Christians gave themselves first to God, and their financial decision flowed out of their desire to worship the Father.

- When worship becomes a part of our very nature – that is, when we’ve begun to walk with God in such a way that we desire to acknowledge His worth in every way – we will give to Him financially as a natural expression of who we are.

- If we are to develop a faithful, Christian attitude to wealth, we must give ourselves to the Lord. 

- We must acknowledge that we are His. 

- We must know that we are dependent upon Him for all things––not money, but Him––not dependent upon wealth, but dependent upon God. 

- Let’s give ourselves to the Lord and our giving will flow out of our very nature. 

- The motivation to give then will be a motivation of worship, of praise, of joy at the awareness of His powerful work within our lives.

- Then we will gladly give our money to His work. 

- We will gladly give our time and our talents to the cause of His kingdom. 

- It will flow out of us as worship, because we first gave ourselves to the Lord and found life in Him.

_ STRENGTH: Creates true Commitment, pleases God, allows much work to be done to advance the cause of His Kingdom and feels good too!

- This is the highest possible motivation, to give because we want to worship God.

_ WEAKNESS: None

- It is important not to settle for anything less than God’s best motivations for our giving.

- As we grow upward from this motivational game plan, our joy will soar, and our efforts for the kingdom will expand dramatically.

Conclusion:

- Back east is a restaurant that serves the best chicken sandwiches.  Truett Cathy, is the founder and chairman of the Chick-fil-A fast-food chain, goes beyond giving regularly to his local church. 

- Cathy knows the value of investing in the lives of young boys and girls. 

- Besides teaching a junior high boys’ Sunday school class for forty years, he operates nine foster homes, has provided over four hundred $10,000 college scholarships, and funds an annual summer camp for more than 1,000 children.

- Among the Christian principles he instills in these children is the value of generous giving. 

- The way he puts it is, “Money is nice to have––as long as you’ve got it in your hand and not in your heart.”

- Where is our money?  Is it in our hands to give generously to those whom God would have us bless?  Or is it in our hearts enthroned at the center of a materialistic philosophy of life?

- Giving feels good when it is motivated by a spirit of worship and praise. 

- Giving feels good when it is the result of having first given ourselves to the Lord. 

-A long time ago I heard someone say that “You can’t out give God”.  And out the time I really didn’t know what is meant.

-But in my life I have seen this statement prove true time and time again.  You can’t out give God means that whenever you give God will always give more in than you could ever ask.

-Now this is not a good motivation to give, but it sure is a great result.

-God says that we can test Him in this.  Giving out of a heart of worship.

Bring your full tithe to the Temple treasury so there will be ample provisions in my Temple. Test me in this and see if I don't open up heaven itself to you and pour out blessings beyond your wildest dreams. -Malachi 3:10 The Message

-Today let’s commit to giving God everything.  Let Him be Lord of all our heart, soul, mind, strength, and even our finances.

 

 

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